Fatherless Women & Motherless Men: Impact On Your Love Life

The Impact on Adult Love Relationships. Coming to Emotional Health & Maturity Despite Difficult Beginnings in Childhood

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Udemy
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English
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Parenting & Relationship
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4 hours
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Jun 2017
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$59.99
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What you will learn

You will understand where your relationship issues come from & what you can do to improve them

You will have begun to eradicate the wariness or fear you may experience in certain relationship situations

You will have healthier & stronger boundaries

You will be well on the road to loving yourself

You will notice a clearly improved psychological and emotional quality of life

You will feel greater inner freedom in how you approach & deal with people

Description

What happens to the adult woman who was raised without her father - possibly due to a lack of physical or emotional presence or a combination thereof? 

What happens to the adult man whose early maternal relationship was somehow not intact, or was dysfunctional, or perceived as unfulfilling? 

Motherlessness and fatherlessness frequently depends not on the death of the parent, but on the fact that the parent of the opposite gender is not there for the child in the way that is necessary for emotional, psychological, spiritual, and in some cases, even physical development to take place in a healthy fashion. Therefore, due to this lack of solid and cohesive parenting – which sometimes may occur even when the parent is doing their best - a dysfunctional mindset, behavior, or defense mechanism may evolve in the personality of the growing boy or girl.

Sometimes a father's physical presence may form part of the household, yet he may not be available for his daughter in the way that she hopes for as she searches his face in vain for a clue to her own identity; sometimes a mother believes she is doing her utmost to raise her son with love and attention, yet he feels as though he never received the love and support he so desperately sought from her as a child; as though he had been short-changed in the affection department.

Sometimes the parent is not actually present, due to divorce, abandonment, illness, or death; sometimes the parent is negligent, uncaring, or even abusive: in all these instances, the child suffers, and pays for it in his or her adult relationships … until he or she recognizes this and begins to work on resolving it. This course explores these issues, their recognition, and possible resolution.

Content

What Happened to the Parent That Wasn't There?

Introduction
An In-Depth Look at Those Missing Parents & You

Defense Mechanisms

Behavioral Patterns & Defense Mechanisms You May Have Built Up Part 1
Behavioral Patterns & Defense Mechanisms You May Have Built Up Part 2

Understanding the Psyche of Your Missing Parent (or Both)

Compassion for Our Parents
The Skills Our Parents Didn’t Learn Part 1
The Skills Our Parents Didn’t Learn Part 2
Understanding That You Will Need to Learn How to Parent Yourself

Fatherless Women: Clinical Case Studies

“Liz”: The Caretaker
“Marianne”: Daddy’s Little Girl
“Robin”: Daddy Never Saw Her - As Though She Never Existed
“Janine”: Blind Love & Betrayal of the Girl by the Mother
“Marilyn”: Love is Pain; Pain is Love
“Maia”: You are so Precious & Wonderful - Only I Know How to Love You

Motherless Men: Clinical Case Studies

“Jonathan”: You’ll Never Measure Up to Your Father
“Malcolm”: Perceived Abandonment
“Richard”: Lovelessness & Rejection
“Damien”: Perceived Betrayal
"Victor”: I Will Spoil & Pamper You, But You May Not Grow Up
“Sean”: You Owe Me

How Might Fatherlessness or Motherlessness Manifest in You?

Poor Self Esteem/Boundaries, Caretaking & Enabling Behavior, Fear of Rejection
Perfectionism, Order, Control, Rebellion against Authority
Self , "Self-Medicating”, Pseudo-Independence
Neediness, Insecurity, Suspicion, Emotional Unavailability, Emotional Blunting
Sexual Dysfunction
Lack of Self-Love, Self-Acceptance, Self-Respect

A Portrait of the Emotionally Mature Adult Man or Woman

Thoughts, Emotions & the Ego
Awareness, Choice & Boundaries
Pain, Forgiving & Self-Responsibility
Life Meaning, Gratitude & Being Present
Self-Soothing, Self-Love, Happiness
Establishing the Inner Connection, Loving Others, Loving the World

Finding Your Way to Emotional Health & Maturity

Step 1: Examine Your Patterns: Part 1
Step 1: Examine Your Patterns: Part 2
Step 1: Examine Your Patterns: Part 3
Step 2: Shoring Up Unhealthy Boundaries
Step 3: Building Awareness Every Day
Step 4: Finding Your Way to Self-Love
Step 5: Recognizing & Replacing Unhelpful Self-Dialogue
Step 6: Taking on Total Self-Responsibility: Part 1
Step 6: Taking on Total Self-Responsibility: Part 2
Step 7: Making It Your Goal to Forgive
Step 8: Understanding That You Will Need to Learn How to Parent Yourself (2)
Conclusion

Bonus Content

Bonus Content

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Reviews

Izus
March 20, 2022
I can't believe how valuable and detailed this course is! Just mind blowing that's it is even available here! So much concrete information. How we were conditions, example behaviours, very easy and practical explanation, rather than irrelevant theory jargon. And what the most important is that there are multiple steps proposed with exercises how to actually turn your life around. I bought many courses on udemy, but this one is by far the most amazing one. I can't thank you enough for creating this! From the bottom of my heart thank you!!!!
E
August 2, 2020
I'm thrilled beyond belief to have found Dr. Kortsch on Udemy. She presents the material in a thorough, yet succinct and understandable manner. I've just completed the course and already feel positively impacted in a deep way by this course. I've retaken several modules because the information is so profound. This course has exponentially exceeded my expectations. I've already purchased some of Dr. Kortsch's other courses and hopefully, some day I can also be her client. She gets it!
Tom
July 14, 2020
Its a good match with what you are saying but I thought I was going to be getting some slides and numbers or something of that magnitude. I do like the content.
pawan
September 2, 2019
Though I am practicing Re parenting through TA . However the resources under item No. 38 superb. I did contact my little self, saw it crying, loved it s eyes body and its tenderness.This is something new in self discovery. I also like to hold my grandson. He loves me.
Christine
November 17, 2017
The explanation of the implications of the lack of secure love from the opposite gender was clear and thorough, but could have been more indepth to cover other forms of absence and impact.
Aixa
August 4, 2017
Me parece un curso que es de mucha utilidad para aclarar muchas dudas personales y que puede llevarte a descubrir una nueva forma de vivir las relaciones personales.
Lisa
July 5, 2017
Excellent course - an extremely interesting and thought provoking topic. Very clearly presented - I am learning a lot!
Di
June 19, 2017
I have found this the most useful and illuminating of Dr Kortsch´s courses so far. Although I grew up with a father and a mother, the course taught me a lot about myself and my attitudes. I guess they were pretty absent even though they were present! Thank you so much. This has opened some interesting insights into me!
Eunice
June 15, 2017
I am one of the " fatherless women" talked about in this course and I have been greatly impacted by the lack of a father's love, affection and recognition for many years of my life. My 1st marriage was to a much older man ( now I know I was looking for daddy ) My second marriage was also to a much older man ( still looking for daddy ) My 3rd ( and hopefully my last ) marriage is to a man the same age as myself but who also has issues as a " motherless man ." I have done a lot of inner work and personal growth over the last 35 years but still have an area in my life that leave me unfulfilled. I feel by working with this course I will gain the understanding and knowledge to help me address my feelings of unfulfillment.
Ignacio
June 14, 2017
Once again, this course delivers great content that can be applied to our daily lives. Lots of interesting ideas that can help us become better human beings by learning a little bit about ourselves.

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