End the suffering in your love relationship!

Discovering the deeper roots of your frustration, anger, fear and pain

4.60 (37 reviews)
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End the suffering in your love relationship!
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1.5 hours
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Jul 2017
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$27.99
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What you will learn

You will understand...

...why frustration is a natural part of growth in a relationship

...why, sometimes, you react very angry

...why, sometimes, little incidents cause such a pain

...why, sometimes, you are afraid oft he separation and feel totally lost

You will find new ways to change these emotions and reactions!

Why take this course?

This course teaches you ways to finish the perpetual inner and outer quarrels with your beloved one. If you understand the deeper roots of your emotions, then your actual emotional reactions change by themselves.

It is simple - but not easy. A lot of suffering in a relationship is caused by old wounds. We all try to avoid and to escape them. But when you allow somebody to come closer to your heart – it is inevitable that your old hurts come up. Because they want to be seen and recognized.

You need to distinguish the actual reality from the negative energy of the past. So the art is to separate past and presence. Sure, they will be situations with your beloved where you feel frustrated, angry or hurt. But, if you discover the distinction, you are no more overwhelmed and you can react in an adequate way. As a grown up!  You show your boundaries and engage yourself for what you want. You meet the other as a powerful and loving adult – not as a helpless child.

This course contains essential insights of my seminars of the last 25 years. Two basic exercises show you how to realize these insights.

Try and see! The following lessons will give you deep understanding of your relationship and of your own personality. So you will nourish yourself and your love!

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Reviews

MayBritt
November 30, 2017
This course is for everyone who is in a relationship even beyond a love relationship. Bertold gives clear, simple and effective guidance and meditations on how to heal your relationship with yourself and your loved one. I enjoy Bertold's casual and gentle approach.
Ed
October 11, 2017
Clear, precise information delivered with respect and concern for the listener. a delicate issue, families, was presented with skill, gentleness, professionalism and care.
Susan
August 20, 2017
It is presented in a calm and comfortable way to want you to listen and take it in. It is extremely relevant.
Susan
July 4, 2017
Thank you, very enlightening. I learned a lot in a short period of time. Great meditation exercises, I will use them! I'm happy that you encouraged us to nourish this knowledge and be patient with the unfolding. Love, Susan PS: If you can lengthen the amount of time your beautiful slides stay on screen, that will be helpful.
Charlotte
June 22, 2017
This course gives a clear, practical way of understanding and dealing with relationships. I appreciate the calm and slow pace and simplicity which enables to understand and grasp the message. Congrats and thank you Bertold! Charlotte Palmgren, director of the Swedish Hellinger Institute
Kirsten
June 20, 2017
Wow--I wish I could have done this class when I had my first boyfriend, my first love. Conflict is such a rich ground for growth but we didn't have the process to recognize our immaturity--we couldn't name it or learn from it. Thank you Bertold for sharing your wisdom--a rich harvest indeed!
Francesca
June 14, 2017
Such a lovely way to have exposure to the work of Bertold Ulsamer! Practical exercises, sweet reminders of deeper ways to connect with one’s beloved, parents, emotions, and our own humanity. -Francesca Mason Boring
Dipa
June 14, 2017
I enjoyed the reminders in this work and also the experiential exercises were very powerful as always in Family Constellation work. I feel a lot of love, care and light from it. Thank-you Bertold for offering this course and making yourself accessible to people who may be far away.
Vicki
June 13, 2017
This is an astounding course. Although it is geared toward a love relationship, I was able to use the exercises to understand what is happening in a different type of relationship, and the insights were extremely powerful. Explorations of how to deal with strong emotions from the past that negatively impact present relationships are presented in a compassionate way. I was able to understand how deep pain experienced in my early childhood was impacting my ability to be present with someone I love who was very angry. Instead of taking it personally and withdrawing, I was able to get in touch with my own emotions, which allowed me to understand the other person's behavior. The many exercises created space which allowed me insight into my behavior in the past, to connect with very strong emotions from which I had fled, and to come to a place of my own compassionate understanding that we all have a deep longing to be loved. I highly recommend this course!

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